Staff and Consultants

Laura Talmus

Laura Talmus

Executive Director and Co-founder

Laura Talmus founded Beyond Differences along with her husband, Averell “Ace” Smith, following the unexpected death of their daughter Lili Rachel Smith in October 2009.

Laura has run the day-to-day operations of Beyond Differences as a volunteer since its founding and was hired by the Board of Directors as its first Executive Director in August 2015. With over thirty-five years’ experience in running and consulting to non- profit organizations, she is passionate about bringing awareness to the issue of adolescent social isolation. Ace and Laura have a 30-year-old son, Abram. They live in Marin County. Contact Laura at lauratalmus@beyonddifferences.org.

Laurel Druke

Laurel Druke

Operations and Development Manager

Laurel Druke comes to Beyond Differences with over six years in international education where she specialized in serving students learning English and creating a sense of belonging for those new to the American culture.

As a student and professional at Dominican University of CA, she worked to extend the student community to include the ELS international students. With her dynamic personality and background, Laurel brings a new energy to the team.

With a double bachelor’s degree in Business/Accounting and Political Science from Dominican University of CA and a master’s in Public Administration from University of San Francisco, she hopes her work through Beyond Differences will make diverse changes in social justice in the world. Laurel was awarded the Nonprofit Accounting Professionals Certification in February 2021. Contact Laurel at laureldruke@beyonddifferences.org.

Sally Kuhlman

Sally Kuhlman

Director of National Programs

Sally Kuhlman has over 25 years of leadership and communications expertise. For many years, she ran her own consulting business providing support to small businesses, nonprofits and entrepreneurs in online marketing, communications, business development, and project management.

Sally is passionate about the mission of Beyond Differences to end adolescent social isolation and create a community of belonging for all. She, along with her wife, Celia Graterol, raised three children in Marin County. Through her children, she witnessed what social isolation felt like, prompting her to join the middle school’s diversity board to help solve the issues some of the students were facing, social isolation being one of the big issues. Sally majored in Social Ecology at UC Irvine and studied Project Management at UC Berkeley. In her free time, Sally enjoys spending time with her adult children, roller skating, reading, writing, taking photos and hiking on the beautiful trails in Marin County. Contact Sally at sallyk@beyonddifferences.org .

Dr. Louise Malandra

Dr. Louise Malandra

Regional Program Manager - Oakland

Dr. Malandra brings over 30 years of experience in the field of education as a teacher, school and program administrator. She is nationally recognized as a consultant with a reputation for inspiring educators to foster the potential of children and young adults.

She has spent most of her career working with parents, teachers, school and district administrators to promote and support rigorous, and transformational learning environments that recognize the negative effects of student isolation incorporates the diversity of student learning styles, promotes cultural competency, student advocacy, and collaborative learning communities.

Dr. Malandra has both undergraduate and graduate degrees from the University of California, Berkeley and an EdD degree specializing in Curriculum and Instruction from the University of San Francisco. She lives in Oakland with her husband Lewis and son Darian. She is honored to be a part of the Beyond Differences community and will focus her work with the Oakland Unified School District. Contact Louise at louise@beyonddifferences.org.

Sally Matsuishi

Sally Matsuishi

Director of National Youth Programs

With over 20 years of nationally recognized work in education, Sally is honored to pay forward the compassion of those who came before her by serving the youth of Beyond Differences.

After earning her MFA from the USC School of Film and Television, Sally began her career producing anti-racist educational programming. Wanting to be on the front lines of the fight for educational equity, Sally founded Next Generation Scholars. As its Executive Director, she created pathways for first generation college students into higher education, wrote anti-racist curriculum and created a BIPOC teacher training academy. Sally has also built mentorship prgrams and created community engagement programs that empower students to uplift their communities. Her programs have become models for education justice organizations and schools across the country.

Sally is the proud descendant of Japanese Concentration Camp survivors, fruit packers, and social justice activists. She and her daughter live in the Bay Area where they love watching Bong Joon-ho movies, eating burritos from Taqueria San Jose and taking selfies with their two small dogs and one large cat. Contact Sally M at sallym@beyonddifferences.org.

Lisette Ostrander, PhD

Lisette Ostrander, PhD

Director of Education Programs

Lisette brings 15+ years of experience as an educator, researcher, bully prevention trainer, program director, and social and emotional development leader. She thrives on building strategic partnerships and creating curricula and experiential learning activities that empower youth and support social and emotional development. 

 In the Fall of 2020, Beyond Differences created The National Innovative Educators cohort, a year-round professional development program that supports educators and SEL influencers by raising mental health and SEL awareness knowledge and building student leadership to end social isolation. Lisette designed and launched this National Program. In partnership with mental health practitioners, community-based experts in social justice, and diversity and inclusion experts, Lisette provides educators with support, practical strategies, and tools.

In 2016, Lisette completed her Ph.D. in Education, specializing in Curriculum, Instruction, and Assessment. Her research explored how a Bay Area educational non-profits’ summer enrichment program for pre-K to 4th-grade students integrated social and emotional learning competencies into instructional activities.

Karina Parada

Karina Parada

Event Coordinator & Administrator, Marin

Karina Parada comes to Beyond Differences with 8 years of administrative experience. She graduated from UC Berkeley in 2015 with a BA in History. The focus of her education was the analysis of the development of the working-class women during the first Industrial Revolution, through the eyes of literary writers during that time. Karina believes that historically underrepresented groups are still struggling for equality and educational equity, but through study and good-works, every act of kindness builds to close those social gaps.

In 2017, Karina and a small group of individuals started their own budding nonprofit, Love Is, that helps connect low-income and isolated senior citizens to community members for companionship and get-togethers during the holiday season. Karina is very passionate about the betterment of her community and is excited to pass Beyond Differences’ message to end social isolation to schools, parents, and local leaders in Solano County. Contact Karina at karinap@beyonddifferences.org.

Sebastian Perez

Sebastian Perez

Program Coordinator

Sebastian Perez comes to Beyond Differences with a strong background in entrepreneurship and customer relations from his experience working in the hospitality field to being the owner of The Detailing Guys, a car detailing service business. Sebastian was born and raised in San Francisco, speaks Spanish and English and is a proud father!

Growing up, Sebastian experienced social isolation firsthand and understands how easy it is to be misunderstood. Because of this, he is a passionate advocate for educating young people on the importance of inclusion and sharing the positive impact it has in creating a culture of belonging. Contact Sebastian at sebastianp@beyonddifferences.org

Kayla Tomizawa

Kayla Tomizawa

Database and Administrative Assistant

Kayla Tomizawa joins Beyond Differences with 4 years of data and administrative experience. She graduated from USC in 2016 with a BS in electrical engineering, earning class recognition from the Good Neighbors Campaign for her STEM-focused service in local public schools.

Kayla is passionate about SEL and bringing socio-emotional awareness to teens, educators, families, and you! When not thinking about teaching kids, Kayla loves to cook, listen to live music, and hike any and every trail with a body of water along it. Contact Kayla at kaylat@beyonddifferences.org.

Mollye Fryday

Mollye Fryday

Program Manager, Professional Development

Mollye has over 10 years of teaching experience at the elementary level, in a variety of schools including Title I, Department of Defense Education Schools, and in public and private Waldorf schools.

Mollye holds a Master’s Degree from Stanford University in Education Policy, Organization, and Leadership Studies, a Bachelor’s Degree from the University of California, Berkeley in Media Studies, and a multiple subject teaching credential from California State University, Sacramento.

After living in Japan and Washington, D.C., Mollye settled in northern California with her husband Josh, their three young sons, and their pandemic-adopted dog.

Mollye has seen Beyond Differences’ programs implemented first-hand in one of the schools she has taught at and was impressed by the curriculum and the difference it made at the school. Mollye is the Program Director for Professional Development working on the Cigna professional development project: Ending Youth Loneliness by Building Inclusive School Communities.

Anna Sanders

Anna Sanders

Regional Program Manager - Portland

Anna Sanders lives in Portland with her husband and 3 children. Anna fell in love with teaching when she was young, and comes to Beyond Differences with over 15 years teaching teens and young children. Anna has worked with vulnerable populations, and is passionate about amplifying the voices of our youth. Anna is excited to join Beyond Differences to continue her work supporting young people to lead our communities to end social isolation. She feels strong about expanding the accessibility and bringing more diversity to the Portland group.

Anna received her Bachelor’s degree from Portland State University in Early Childhood Education with a minor in Spanish. She attended her last term at University of Barcelona in Barcelona, Spain. Most recently, she taught Spanish for Portland Early Learning Project in many local schools.

Prior to teaching Spanish, she was the Head Teacher for Albina Head Start Teen Parent program at Roosevelt High school. For over 10 years she worked with young mothers and fathers, often socially isolated from their peers, juggling adolescence and being a parent. She discovered she really enjoyed building strong relationships with these young families, and was inspired by their tenacity and ability to overcome adversity. She enjoys dancing, reading, music, cooking and spending time with family and friends. She speaks Spanish and English in her home and is enjoying teaching the language to her children. She is incredibly excited to be part of Beyond Differences.

Laura Congdon

Laura Congdon

Grant Writing Consultant

Laura started her career in the SF Bay Area non-profit world 25 years ago at Juma Ventures, a San Francisco social enterprise non-profit serving at-risk youth where she could merge her management experience and desire to make a difference in the lives of young people. Hooked on non-profit work after that she went on to have leadership roles at other youth development and social enterprise focused organizations in San Francisco, Oakland, and Richmond.

Over the years Laura has worked at Community Vocational Enterprises (Business Director), the International Institute of SF – Youth Cares (Director of Youth Programs), BUILD Oakland (Site Director), Boys & Girls Clubs of San Francisco (Outcome Measurement Director) and Pogo Park (Deputy Director & Director of Strategic Partnerships). Laura has experience working in all aspects of non-profits from grant writing and program design to outcome measurement , curriculum development, strategic planning, and staff professional development. Laura especially loves to coach and mentor young emerging leaders.

Laura currently lives in El Cerrito with her partner Kelly and their 16-year-old son.

Barbara Zamost

Barbara Zamost

Zamost Public Relations Consultant

Barbara Zamost has developed regional and national publicity programs for a wide range of clients including Guide Dogs for the Blind, Sutter Home Winery, Ghirardelli Square, 7-Eleven, The San Francisco Recording Academy, The Clorox Company, Ronald McDonald House at Stanford, Warren Miller Entertainment, Noah’s Bagels and Boys & Girls Clubs.

Through her work with Brazer Communications, Zamost was also part of the public relations team on The Bay Lights, the monumental art sculpture on The Bay Bridge.

Zamost has placed clients on national news programs including The Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, NPR, CNBC, and more. Print placements have included USA Today, New York Times, Associated Press, Wall Street Journal, San Francisco Chronicle, Huffington Post, LA Times, InStyle and Real Simple.

Zamost is the author of Handstands in the Sand, a children’s book that was published in 1992. She studied literature and contemporary British theatre at University College, Oxford University in England, and earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in English from Emory University in Atlanta.

Dabney Ingram

Dabney Ingram

Research & Program Evaluation Consultant

Dr. Ingram has over twenty years of experience in education, primarily guiding organizations through the research and evaluation process, from conceptualization to completion. Much of her work focuses on youth and community development, particularly how to support belonging, healthy child and adolescent development, and social justice. Dabney also brings strategic management and program development expertise as co-founder of ScreenSense, a non-profit that empowers families to develop a healthy relationship with technology.

Prior to starting her own consulting business in 2012, Dabney held research and consulting positions at organizations such as The McKenzie Group (Washington, DC), The Centre for Educational Research (at the London School of Economics), and The John W. Gardner Center for Youth and their Communities (at Stanford University). Since 2012, she has mainly consulted to school districts, local government departments and non-profit organizations.

Dabney earned her Ph.D. in Education at Stanford University, M.S. in Social Psychology from the London School of Economics, and B.A. from Amherst College. Dabney lives in Marin County with her husband and three children.

SEL and Mental Health Team Consultants

Genavae Pierre Dixon, LMFT

Genavae Pierre Dixon, LMFT

Genavae Pierre Dixon facilitated October 2020 session: Keeping Ourselves Whole While Supporting Students From A Distance.

Genavae Pierre Dixon is a licensed marriage and family therapist, LMFT who is currently the mental health and wellness coordinator at Gunn High School. She received her Master’s in Counseling Psychology, with an emphasis in marriage and family therapy from University of San Francisco and completed her BA at the University of California, Riverside in Psychology. Genavae specializes in trauma-focused CBT practices, client centered care, and motivational interviewing, having worked in community mental health settings since 2015. Her previous placements were Bill Wilson Center, Community Solutions, Unity Care, and CASSY (counseling and support services for youth), where she gained experience working with children, adolescents, families, couples, and adults. Genavae’s greatest goal is to reduce mental health stigma, increase access to care, and better the lives of children and families in her community!

Aza Frias

Aza Frias

Sexual Health Educator

Aza facilitated our March 2021 session: Gender 101 and How to Support Transgender Students

Aza Frias (pronouns they/them) has been learning about and teaching others how to support the transgender community for many years. They’ve worked in the mental health field since 2014 and are set to graduate this year with a Masters in Social Work. Aza is genderqueer and Latinx and has been steeped in the LGBTQ+ community in the Bay Area since they were a child. Aza is also a trained sexual health educator and has personal and professional experience supporting folks with disabilities. Aza seeks to always address internalized biases and wishes to acknowledge that they are aware they have class and light-skin privilege, and that they live on the unceded land of the Chochenyo Ohlone.

Kelli Harding, MD, MHP

Kelli Harding, MD, MHP

Dr. Harding will be leading sessions in the Fall of 2021.

Dr. Harding is a Columbia University trained board certified psychiatrist. She is based in New York City and specializes in the interplay between mental and physical health. She writes about how groundbreaking new research shows that love, friendship, community, life’s purpose, and our environment can have a greater impact on our health than anything that happens in the doctor’s office, in her book: THE RABBIT EFFECT: Live Longer, Happier, and Healthier with the Groundbreaking Science of Kindness

Michael Lovejoy

Michael Lovejoy

Special Education Educator

Michael facilitated our December 2020 Brown Bag Session: “Meeting Them Where They Are: Supporting and Connecting with Students with Special Needs”

Michael Lovejoy is a Special Education Teacher at Tamalpais High School in Mill Valley, California.  For over 20 years, Michael has experienced the joys of and challenges of working with students with moderate to severe special needs.  His aim is to celebrate and champion the genuine spirit and unique brilliance of the individual while fostering and inspiring a caring and supportive community.

 

Fong Marcolongo

Fong Marcolongo

Director of Training and Capacity Building at Be The Change Consulting

Fong Marcolongo facilitated our November 2020 session: “How to Cultivate an Anti-racist Classroom” and worked closely with our Director of Education to develop the initial program design of our cohorts.

Fong’s expertise resides in program design, staff development, youth development, and specializes in creating interactive visual frameworks for group collaboration and strategic visioning. Fong has over 10 years of working in the non-profit sector, where she served as a direct line staff, Site Coordinator, Program Director, and Curriculum Developer. Fong uses her graphic facilitation skills to lead participants in their process design using creativity to achieve fruitful outcomes. She studied Global Affairs at the University of San Francisco.